How Your Second Pregnancy Is Different from Your First

Can’t wait to give your baby a little brother or sister to play with? You’re not alone: One-third of pregnancies in the U.S. happen within 18 months of a previous birth, according to a new study from the Guttmacher Institute in New York. And planning a pregnancy quickly after your first one is even more common in women over the age of 30, according to the findings.

But just because you’ve been pregnant before doesn’t mean you know exactly what you’re in for. In fact, your second pregnancy will likely be a little different from your first, says Shari Brasner, MD, assistant clinical professor of obstetrics, gynecology, and reproductive science at Mount Sinai School of Medicine.

Brasner shares a few things you should expect during a round-two pregnancy:

You could deal with nutrition issues
The biggest concern during a second pregnancy, nutritionally speaking, is that you might be more iron deficient, says Brasner. Pregnancy in general puts a big strain on the iron stores in your blood, and many women go into their first pregnancy iron deficient, she says. This, combined with the fact that your body’s already been weakened by your first pregnancy and maybe hasn’t had time to fully recover, could be why you lack the nutrient even more while carrying your second child, says Brasner. Luckily, that’s pretty easy to remedy since iron supplements (which you might want to take a couple of times a week, depending on your needs) are widely available.

You might be prone to more complications
The Center for Disease Control and Prevention and the Mayo Clinic both suggest that the optimal time to wait between births is at least 18 months. Why? Research shows pre-term birth, low birth weight, and even growth restriction are three of the things you might have to worry about if you’re having your second child very soon after your first, says Brasner, because your body hasn’t had enough time to recover from the physical and nutritional burden of your first pregnancy.

You can experience certain symptoms sooner
Pregnancy-related woes like back pain, varicose veins, and hemorrhoids that typically occur during the third trimester can strike earlier—not to mention more dramatically, says Brasner. Why? Basically, your first pregnancy weakens your muscoskeletar structure and your vessel walls, which makes it easier for these symptoms to resurface. The good news: Any potential morning sickness and cravings shouldn’t be worse than they were the first time around.

You may feel bigger
Many women feel like they’re getting bigger, faster during their second pregnancy, but that’s really a subjective thing since your measurements will most likely follow the same pattern as the first time, says Brasner. However, keep in mind that if you’ve held onto some of the extra pounds you gained from the first pregnancy, then you’ll of course be bigger the second time around.

You’ll likely be exhausted
While waiting for baby number two to arrive, you might find yourself low on energy—but it’s usually not a health concern, says Brasner. Usually, feeling like you’re dragging is just because you’re already a mom and dealing with things that you didn’t have to deal with the first time around—like taking care of a young, high-energy child.

…But you should also feel more relaxed
If you headed to your doctor’s appointments with a long list of questions and concerns during your first pregnancy, chances are you’ll be way more blasé the second time around. The simple reason for the change: Already having had a child builds up your confidence, so there isn’t that fear of the unknown.

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How to Have the Healthiest Pregnancy Possible

True or false: The rate of women in the U.S. who die because of complications related to pregnancy or childbirth has declined in the past 20 years.

Not only is the statement false, but the number has actually doubled over the past two decades—which is one of the reasons a panel of experts addressed the 2013 Women In the World Summit on Friday to discuss possible solutions to the global issue of maternal mortality.

“Saving Mothers: A Surprising Solution” was moderated by Deborah Roberts, a network correspondent for ABC News. The panel included Senior Chief Kwataine Masina, board chairperson of the Presidential Initiative on Maternal Health and Safe Motherhood in Malawi; Molly Melching, founder and executive director of Tostan, an organization that promotes education about women’s health in Africa; Christy Turlington Burns, founder of Every Mother Counts; and Julie L. Gerberding, MD, MPH, president of Merck Vaccines.

Maternal mortality claims about 800 women worldwide every single day, most of whom die because of post-partum hemorrhage or preeclampsia, a condition where pregnant women experience high blood pressure and protein in the urine. About 15 percent of all pregnant women have complications—and it’s how those complications are handled that makes the difference between life and death, says Burns, a former model who became passionate about the issue of maternal mortality when, nine years ago, she hemorrhaged after giving birth.

“My situation was dealt with very efficiently with a midwife and a doctor and a team of people who knew how to react,” she says. “What I learned in the weeks afterward was  that hundreds of thousands of women were dying of the same or similar complications because people didn’t know what the symptoms meant.”

One of the most poignant moments in the session occurred when Kwataine Masina, a senior chief in Malawi, recounted the story of a woman in his district who was struggling through a breech birth years ago. “We never knew what a breech was,” says Masina. “We thought she was bewitched.” After the woman had spent more than 12 hours in labor and lost a lot of blood, Masina and other local men were asked to carry the pregnant woman to the nearest hospital, which was about three kilometers away. One kilometer into the walk, the woman died in Masina’s arms. So when he took over as tribal chief in 2000, he made maternal survival a priority—a lofty goal considering that in Malawi, 1 in 36 mothers die during childbirth.

“A woman has also a right to life and a right to health,” he says. “Why should women only die like goats, die like chickens just because they want to give life?”

Masina instituted committees of women who keep track of all the pregnant women in the village and check in on them. He also recognizes men in the community who support pregnant women by taking them to a health center for prenatal visits and escorting them to a clinic for delivery. As a result, Masina hasn’t experienced a single incident of maternal mortality in his district in the past three years.

But as mentioned previously, this issue affects mothers in the U.S., as well. On the list of nations with the lowest maternal mortality rate, the U.S. actually ranks 50th, behind other countries like Bosnia, Turkey, and Kuwait. About 1,000 women a year die because of maternal mortality in this country, but another 51,000 experience what doctors call a “near miss,” where they almost die. This can often result in debilitating complications post-pregnancy, says  Priya Agrawal, MD, OBGYN, executive director of Merck for Mothers, an organization to created to save women’s lives.

The problem may be on the rise because there is no standardized quality of care from hospital to hospital, although the increased incidence of pregnant women with pre-existing conditions such as high blood pressure, obesity, and diabetes likely also contributes, says Agrawal.

Here’s what you can do to make sure you and your loved ones minimize your risk of complications—or even death—because of pregnancy:

Get adequate prenatal care
Agrawal shared the story of one woman who thought she didn’t need to visit the doctor while she was pregnant with her fourth child since, by that point, she knew what she was in for. It wasn’t until her brother encouraged her to visit the OBGYN anyway that she found out she had preeclampsia. When you manage problems effectively, you’re much more likely to avoid any lasting problems, says Agrawal.

Share your birth story—and encourage friends and family to share theirs
Often, women don’t even realize they had a near-miss until they hear others’ stories, says Agrawal, because they don’t know what’s normal and what’s not.  ”Pregnancy ends six weeks after delivery,” she says. “If you have any lingering complications afterward, you probably experienced a near miss.” If you tell your story on Merck for Mothers’ Facebook page, Merck will also make a contribution to Join My Village, an organization that supports women in India and Malawi.

Watch for warning signs
If you’re pregnant and you experience blurred vision or a headache that won’t go away, head to your doctor to get it checked out—both are symptoms of preeclampsia. Signs of a pulmonary embolism, a blood clot that’s another leading cause of maternal mortality, include severe shortness of breath and/or one leg that’s significantly more swollen, red, or painful than the other. It’s also worth noting that staying sedentary for extended periods of time—like taking a three-hour road trip—can put you at a higher risk for pulmonary embolisms (so you should stretch your legs at least once every couple of hours). As for post-delivery hemorrhaging, say something if you feel weak and you’re worried about the amount of blood you’re losing—even if no one else seems concerned. “I’d rather a woman ask me to check two or three times than walk in five minutes too late,” says Agrawal.

photo: courtesy of Women In the World

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The 411 on Pregnancy and Depression

Giving birth can be one of the most joyous occasions in a woman’s life—or, unfortunately for some women, one of the most depressing: Of 10,000 new mothers who took part in a recent study, fourteen percent screened positive for postpartum depression, according to a new study published in the journal JAMA Psychiatry.

To assess women’s odds of developing postpartum depression, researchers from the University of Pittsburgh arranged for 10,000 new mothers to receive a screening four to six weeks after giving birth.  Clinicians asked each mother a series of 10 questions, all of which related to feelings of depression and/or thoughts of self-harm. Those who screened positive for postpartum depression or who had thoughts of self-harm were then offered an in-home evaluation from a psychiatrist or a telephone screening to determine a diagnosis.

Of the women who completed the evaluation, the vast majority said their depression-related symptoms didn’t start until after they had conceived: A whopping 40 percent started experiencing depression postpartum, while 33 percent said they first starting feeling depressed during pregnancy. Just 27 percent said they experienced symptoms of depression before conceiving, suggesting that, in most cases, there was a definite correlation between the pregnancy and the depression. Even more alarming?  Almost 20 percent of the women also had suicidal thoughts.

It’s unclear why pregnancy-related depression occurs, says Dorothy Sit, MD, a psychiatrist at the University of Pittsburgh and one of the study authors. “The disruption in sleep and rest and maybe even nutrition could be factors that may contribute, but we just don’t know yet.”

The good news: There are a few things that can help prevent or at least treat pregnancy-related depression, says Sit. First and foremost, if you have a family or personal history of depression, consider beginning treatment—like seeing a psychotherapist or taking anti-depressant medication—immediately after giving birth, even before symptoms may appear.

Second, you may want to schedule a routine postpartum depression screening a few weeks after giving birth, says Sit. Even if you don’t have a formal screening, you should be on the lookout for possible signs of the condition. Red flags include coming down with a case of the blues, having difficulty falling asleep, suffering from a complete lack of energy, feeling especially anxious about things that never used to bother you, tearing up randomly, and feeling “meh” about things you used to enjoy, says Sit. If you can check off a few of these symptoms for 10 to 14 days straight, hightail it to your doctor, who will tailor a treatment plan to your specific needs.

It’s also helpful to get moral support from family and friends. Having people who are there for you may not necessarily prevent postpartum depression, but it can help ease the transition for all new mothers—particularly those with PPD, says Sit.

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5 Ways Pregnancy Changes Your Body

It’s a given that your body goes through some major changes while you’re pregnant—but your belly and your thighs aren’t the only things that that transform when you’ve got a bun in the oven. Pregnancy permanently changes the size of a woman’s foot, according to a new study published in the American Journal of Physical Medicine & Rehabilitation.

Researchers measured the foot length and arch height of 49 women during their first trimester and again five months after giving birth. In 60 to 70 percent of participants, they found a reduction in the height of the arch, a reduction in the rigidity of the tissue responsible for holding the arch up, and a 2 to 10 millimeter increase in foot length.

Surprisingly, the change isn’t tied to pregnancy weight gain. “We found that the changes in the feet were independent of how much weight people gained during pregnancy, as well as independent of whether they lost the weight after pregnancy,” says Neil Segal, MD, lead study author and associate professor of orthopedics and rehabilitation at the University of Iowa. So what may cause the permanent change in a woman’s feet? Though he didn’t measure them specifically for this study, Segal says that two hormones—estrogen and relaxin—may be to blame. “We think that the main purpose of these hormones is to relax the ligaments in the joints and pelvis in order to allow delivery,” he says. “However, the hormones go to the whole body, so they also cause loosening at the knee joints and have been reported to cause loosening in the wrists. In this study, they may be what accounted for the changes in the feet.”

That’s not the only way that pregnancy affects your body, though. Laura Corio, MD, an OB-GYN at Mount Sinai Medical Center in New York City, shares some of the other surprises in store for moms-to-be:

Your Skin
Don’t freak out if you start breaking out shortly after conceiving. Corio says it’s pretty common to have acne early on, particularly during the first trimester. Many women can also get skin tags due to hormonal spikes. Some of these can linger after you give birth, but a dermatologist can easily remove them. Perhaps the most frustrating skin-related change is discoloration, which can happen all over the body and may take up to a year to fade. Also, some women might develop a dark, brownish line (known as linea nigra) that goes down their stomach vertically. In time, this fades on its own.

Your Veins
Women might be more prone to getting varicose veins during pregnancy—and they may actually get more with each pregnancy. The weight of the baby exerts pressure on the veins, making it harder for blood to return to the heart. The (not pretty) result: swollen-looking veins.

Your Hands
Along with your feet, your hands might get larger, Corio says. During pregnancy, your hands swell (to the point where you might have to have your rings resized) as you retain more water. Sometimes, they don’t return to the pre-pregnancy size.

Your Hair
While your hair might look shiny and healthy during pregnancy, you may start losing some of your locks as soon as you give birth. This happens because your hormones are incredibly high during pregnancy, and as soon as you deliver, they drop, causing you to shed. This can last up to six months post-partum, but your hair will eventually return to how its pre-pregnancy state, Corio says.

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The Biggest Myths About Sex and Pregnancy

You already know that it takes time to slim down after a pregnancy. But new moms should expect delays in the bedroom department as well. Most women wait at least six to eight weeks after giving birth to have sex again, according to a new study published in BJOG: An International Journal of Obstetrics and Gynaecology.

Researchers at the Murdoch Children’s Research Institute in Australia collected data from 1,507 first-time moms at 3, 6, and 12 months after giving birth, asking when they first attempted vaginal sex. The results: 41 percent of women had sex by 6 weeks, 65 percent by 8 weeks, and 78 percent by 12 weeks. Whether they had complications during the birth was a big factor in how long they waited. New moms who’d had a C-section, episiotomy, or other complications were far less likely to resume having sex at the six-week mark.

The study shows that there’s no universal cutoff for when you should start to ease back into your old sex life. “It is very important to dispel the myth that everything will be ‘back to normal’ by six weeks,” Stephanie Brown, an associate professor at The Murdoch Children’s Research Institute and lead author of the study, wrote in an email. Recovery is mental as well as physical: according to Brown, many new moms are too busy or too tired for sex while attending to the demands of a newborn. Others are afraid of the pain of trying to have sex again. These concerns are normal, she says, and you shouldn’t feel guilty about having them.

Whether or not you’re contemplating having a baby any time soon, there’s no reason to walk around with bad information that will only freak you out. Alyssa Dweck, MD, co-author of V is for Vagina, dispels the biggest myths surrounding sex and pregnancy.

Myth #1: Your Libido Will Tank
It’s totally normal for pregnant women to feel a dip in their sex drive, says Dweck, especially in the side-effect-heavy first trimester. But that’s not true for everyone. “The good news is that plenty of other women have a soaring libido when they’re pregnant,” she says. The hormonal changes during pregnancy can cause some women to feel a pleasant spike in sexual desire. And don’t be surprised if your newly arrived curves make you feel irresistibly hot. Plenty of couples manage to maintain an active sex life for all nine months, says Dweck. Just don’t get caught up in what’s “normal.” “There is no normal,” she says. “A lot of it has to do with what your sexual activities were before pregnancy.”

Myth #2: Sex Can Hurt the Baby
If you remember that scene from Knocked Up, you probably know that sex during pregnancy can’t damage a fetus. But this myth still stubbornly lives on. “A lot of times the male partners are more frightened to have sex than the women,” says Dweck. In most cases, sex is 100% safe for mom and baby. There are some exceptions, which your OBgyn will warn you about. Among other issues, if you have an incompetent (or weakened) cervix, unexplained bleeding, or suffer from a condition called placenta previa, your OBgyn will advise you not to have sex while pregnant. If you have concerns, just ask your doc, but chances are she’ll give you the green light.

That said, not all positions are fair game. You may have to switch up your routine, as some of your old standbys may not be as comfortable for you. At 15-20 weeks, you’ll want to avoid lying flat on your back (the weight of your uterus can compress your vena cava, causing a dangerous drop in blood pressure) –which means traditional missionary is out, says Dweck. Doggy-style and side-by-side are popular alternatives.

Myth #3: You Should Be Having Sex By 6 Weeks Postpartum
If you’re going at it at the 6-week mark, congratulations! Just know that you’re in the minority. Six weeks is the bare minimum for how long you should wait to heal fully after giving birth. Many women will need more time than that. Basically, after you give birth, your delicate bits are raw, exposed, and vulnerable to infection. Plus, your cervix needs time to close up again, says Dweck, and it typically takes about six weeks for that to happen. If you had an episiotomy, it needs to heal completely. (In fact, the Murdoch Children’s Research Institute study indicates that only 10% of first-time moms will give birth with an intact perineum.) Having sex too early increases your chances of pain and infection. Dweck recommends external play instead: cuddling, kissing, and general adorableness with your partner. Just make sure to hold off on any activity in or near your vagina until you’re fully healed.

Myth #4: The First Time You Do It Will Hurt
“Most women are really afraid of pain with sex after pregnancy,” says Dweck. But if you allow enough time for your body to heal completely, sex won’t be a problem. Keep in mind that new moms become ready for sex at very different rates, as the study shows. When you decide that you’re ready, it doesn’t hurt to be extra-careful. Your estrogen levels dip while you’re nursing, which can cause vaginal dryness, so Dweck recommends using plenty of lube when you decide to take the plunge. Communicate with your partner about your fears, take it slow, and go easy on yourself. And don’t forget to use contraception, says Dweck — you’ll need it even when you’re nursing.

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