The Random Thing That Boosts Your Happiness

Need a happiness boost? Get out of town! No, seriously. The further you are from home, the happier your tweets tend to be, according to a new study from the University of Vermont.

Researchers analyzed 37 million geolocated tweets from 180,000 people in the United States during 2011 (meaning the tweets included GPS information). From those tweets, they were able to determine where each user spent most of their time and how far they typically traveled throughout the year. Researchers noticed that people used fewer negative words (like “hate,” “can’t’,” “damn,” and “never”) and more positive words (like “new,” “great,” “beach,” and “restaurant”) the farther they were from home. Pretty awesome, right?

Sure, the occasional vacay can boost your mood and give you more exciting things to tweet about, but frequent flyers saw an even bigger benefit: People who cast a wider travel net tended to be happier tweeters overall when compared to those who generally stayed in their bubble, says lead study author Christopher Danforth, PhD, associate professor in the department of mathematics and statistics at the University of Vermont.

So why does packing up and leaving give you such a happiness rush? “When we get out of the monotony, our mood changes,” says Elizabeth Lombardo, PhD, author of A Happy You. “We see things in a different way, we appreciate [things] more. It provides us with a different perspective.” Not to mention that travel usually frees you from at least a few responsibilities. Whether it’s zoning out from work while on vacation or forgetting about household duties while at a work conference, you’re able to hone in on certain things rather than constantly multitasking, says Lombardo.

Luckily, you don’t need to be a jetsetter to reap the benefits. Just try these simple tweaks to change your scenery and amp up your happiness—no airline tickets required:

Get outside
It’s no island getaway, but even a walk around the block can get you in the vacation state of mind. “The research overwhelmingly shows that when we’re outside, we’re happier,” says Lombardo. Add to that the stress-busting and confidence-boosting benefits that come with it. Plus, you move more when you’re on vacation, so adding more activity to your day can help you achieve the similar zen you get from hiking around a resort, says Lombardo.

Ditch your usual hangout
It’s no coincidence that people tended to tweet the words restaurant, café, lunch, and dinner when they were farther from home. When you travel, you’re constantly hitting up new and exciting spots, so try the same technique in your city, says Lombardo. Even if it ends up only being so-so, heading somewhere new breaks up your routine and can help you avoid falling into a stay-at-home rut.

Do something spontaneous
Remember that time you took salsa lessons in Mexico or went horseback riding on the beach? We’re willing to bet you can do those same kinds of things in your own town. Sign up for something you would never normally do at home, says Lombardo. The thrill of trying something new will give you the same rush you get on vacation.

Plan your next getaway
Even if you can’t take a day off until 2014, it’s still a good idea to start thinking about your next trip. “Studies have found that just planning a vacation increases our happiness,” says Lombardo. Start a Pinterest board of “Vacation Wish Lists” and take a 10-minute break once a week to browse through resorts. Not only will you be happier, but you’ll be super prepared when the time comes to actually book a trip.

Do some redecorating
When a vacation just isn’t in the cards, change the scenery on your desk instead. Print out pictures from your last trip, or get some inexpensive prints of spots you’d love to visit. Then, post them around your office or set them as the background on your computer. “Research shows that just looking at a picture of nature can make us happier,” says Lombardo. Remembering a fond vacation also has a similar effect, she says.

Get social—even when you’re local
If you weren’t too surprised by this study, it’s probably because you’re guilty of the same Twitter behavior. After all, who doesn’t love to humblebrag when you’re sipping a pina colada on the beach and complain when you’re stuck in traffic on the way to work? But tweaking your Twitter habits can have an awesome effect on your mood. “You don’t have to be away from home to start tweeting about cool things going on in your life,” says Lombardo. “Start taking pictures not just when you’re at the beach, but when you’re walking down the street. Challenge yourself to Instagram more when you’re home”—rather than just when you’re on vacation. Chances are you’ll see a boost in your mood and your follower

photo: Polka Dot/Thinkstock

More from Women’s Health:
How to Be Happy
The Happiness Diet
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Get This: “Random Acts of Pizza” Are Happening In Boston

Check out the list of links that should be on your radar today:

Hundreds of Reddit users are sending “Random Acts of Pizza” to stranded marathon survivors and the Bostonians housing them. [Huffington Post]

Feeling stressed? Popping a Tylenol might help, according to a new study. [EurekAlert]

In very cool news, aerobic exercise may help prevent—and even reverse—some of the negative effects drinking has on the brain. [LA Times]

A new report from AAA shows your car costs about $ 9,100 a year to own and operate. So that’s where all your cash went. [USA Today]

Disney plans to make a new Star Wars movie every summer, starting in 2015. For proof that this is a bad idea, see episodes one through three. [Vulture]

Make sure to wash your veggies: Your refrigerator’s produce drawer tends to be the germiest place in the kitchen. [Huffington Post]

Budweiser’s engineers spent several years designing its new bowtie-shaped beer can, which they say is “very appealing to young adults.” Pretty sure they’ll be more concerned with the fact that an ounce of booze is missing from each can. [CNBC]

Feel free to skip this trend: Clothes with fake breasts on them are a thing. [The Cut]

A new app in Iceland warns you if a potential one-night-stand is related to you or not. If that’s a problem for you, then you probably need more help than just this app. [Businessweek]

photo: iStockphoto/Thinkstock

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The Random Thing That’s Stressing You Out

It’s not just you—listening to someone chat away on the phone is a pet peeve for pretty much everyone. People who overheard a one-sided cell phone conversation reported being more distracted and irritated than those who overheard a two-person conversation, according to a new study published in the journal PLOS One. And good luck tuning it out—you’re also more likely to remember parts of a distracting cell phone conversation than you are to remember an actual nearby discussion.

To mimic real-world situations, researchers told participants they were completing a study on anagrams and reading comprehension. While they were working on the anagrams, a nearby participant (who was actually a fellow researcher) either talked on his or her cell phone or chatted with a third participant. After the study was finished, the participants filled out a questionnaire about the situation. They also completed a memory task about what they had overheard. The people who heard the one-sided conversation reported the experience as being more distracting and irritating. Plus, they actually scored twice as high on the memory task as the participants who overheard a full discussion—even though many said that they were actively trying to tune it out.

“The brain wants to understand patterns,” says lead study author Veronica Galván, PhD, assistant professor at the University of San Diego. “Having no context for that speech is what seems to be so attention-grabbing.” Essentially, hearing only half of a conversation makes you more likely to perk up and listen because you automatically try to figure out what the convo is about—even if you’d prefer not to hear it at all.

It’s tempting to confiscate someone’s phone the next time they’re yapping loudly right next to you, but there are other strategies that won’t cause a scene. Here, a few ways to deal with the rudeness:

Try to relocate
It can be brutal to give up a prime coffee shop seat just because the person next to you won’t shut up, but it might be your best option. “If you can move away, it’s going to be easier than trying to police someone else’s behavior,” says Anna Post, co-author of Emily Post’s Etiquette, 18th Edition. “Especially if this is a stranger, because you really don’t know who you might get.” Try to read the situation: If there’s no way this person is quieting down—let alone getting off the phone—you might want to pack it up and move.

Make eye contact
Sure, some people truly don’t care if you hear them having a full-blown fight on their cell. But others may just get caught up in their conversation and forget where they are for a moment. When you’re stuck next to someone like this and they seem a little oblivious, try to catch their eye. This spark of awareness may be all they need to remember that they’re not in soundproof bubble, says Post.

Pop in your ear buds
If escaping the noise isn’t an option and the eye contact trick doesn’t work, grab your headphones. Not only will listening to Adele chill you out, but it’s easier to tune out your own music than it is to ignore a one-sided conversation (since your mind won’t be working overtime to fill in the blanks). Or, if your headphones help muffle the noise, you could wear them and not play any music at all.

Call for backup
If you’re in a public place—like a restaurant or nail salon—and stuck sitting next to a loud cell phone talker, you may be able to ask management to step in. Just discreetly excuse yourself to find the manager and see if they can either ask the person to quiet down or move you away from the noise, says Post.

Speak up—but be careful how you do it
Whether you’re brave or you’ve just run out of other options, sometimes you really want to say something to the offender. In this case, always keep it short, simple, and neutral. “Don’t start commenting on how rude it is—that’s implied because you’re speaking up,” says Post. But on the other hand, you don’t want to go overly sweet, which can come off as disingenuous. Simply smile and get straight to the point by saying, “Hi, would you mind lowering your voice a little? Thanks.”
But here’s the clincher: Make sure your “thanks” is undeniably neutral and not loaded with condescension and cattiness. “I can’t stress enough how many people do well until the thanks,” says Post. “They blow it because they say thanks with that snide, snarky, superior tone and it just destroys any progress you made prior to it.” Her advice: Be bland and unmemorable—but direct.

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Relieve Stress and Noise Pollution
Work place Etiquette
Dealing With Rude Coworkers 

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